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. . My whole life i struggeld with the word ‚N O‘. . But I never thought that being a Yes2life - sayer, brings you anything but contentment through the various experiences you may make. Especially the failures- because they tend to teach you the most effective lessons. And hui, I learned quite a lot. So far. . The latest lesson though - is one of the most profund and eye opening of my lifetime so far - ‚ Y E S binds you. N O frees you. and B O T H need eachother to experience their purpose.‘ . Can‘t be, i thought. y e s is lively, active and brave. n o seems the opposite and charmless. I thought. . And yet - it stuck to me. because it makes s o much sense. . Whenever you say yes- to something, to anybody, to commitments - you a t t a c h e yourself to that. You grab a chance. So literally you‘re holding something in your hands. Your hands are now occupied. Not as free as before. . Whereas when you say N O you let go off a bond and have empty, ready hands again. . Don‘t get me wrong - i‘m still a yes sayer. Passionate as ever. Fully believing in its spirit. Still with all my heart. . The only, but essential difference - I learned to s e l e c t. Freed myself consiously from bindings. To create the focus I need to follow my path. And to finally be free for cherishing the bindings that smooth it. . So N O actually grew the most powerful ace up my sleeve. I gratefully use it when i need to. With pleasure. . Because now I think - When wisely chosen your attachments, b e i n g b o u n d g r o u n d s you. And lead you a way that you‘ve freely chosen. Whatever it is that you bind yourself to. Whatever you Yes. Whatever you No. Only Y O U know. So, tidy up - It‘s worth it. . . •

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