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• I was sitting here All by myself Trying to be Everybody else. But now I see.. I gotta be me Ain’t n o b o d y Just like this I gotta be me! Baby, hit or miss.' (Odetta) . The Good & Bad. The Hot’s & Not’s The Do’s & Don’ts, The Can’s & Can’ts. The Will’s & Won’ts. The have to’s & the need to’s. Of : everybody. For: everybody. We ALL know them. We ALL have them. More or less . Rules and behaviour govern our dreams, our relationships, our jobs, our wishes, our concerns, our mind, our world, our whole life. It seems. Like a virus of BUT’s and NO’s. Which most people you ask will say is totally normal, because- it's 'always been like that.' And, '..we all didn't die of a little unhappiness.' And 'being unsatisfied with your everyday life is part of the deal- so, just stop complaining, get over it and go on doing what you do.' Because 'Change really isn't going to give you anything, but trouble- it's N O T safe. Better not try it.' . . There is a common idea of how life should work. And no matter how aware we become and how independent we propably are in many ways - this „NO virus“ which we were unwillingly given, will always be a part of us. Doubt, Fear of change and loss, etc. - In some way, shape or form, it will try to take over again. Which I actually think is great, because – Even more firmly we can then choose to leave it behind. . The good lifes. The better lifes. The stressfull lifes. The wannahave lifes. The pretty sweet lifes. The lifes with a meaning or none. . Hmm. . Actually it's an easy calculation - as we subtract valuing additives, we will get : L I F E. The most valuable one of all , simply because it’s : O U R S. Which needs no approval, but : our O W N. Where the only goal is : to J U S T B E. . Let’s wave our hair like we just don’t care. Let’s discover life’s real singularity. Let’s stop dualistic worldviewing. Let’s embrace saying YES. Let’s cure this virus. Let’s stop judging. Let’s grab life. Let’s love it. Let’s live it. Let’s BE WHO WE ARE. Now. . • 📷 @jennandthecamera 🙏🏼💕

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